Hello I really want peoples takes on this
I'm 32. I have 2 teen girls I had when I was young.
And I have a 5 yr old boy I had obviously a bit later.
I have a new partner (2 years together)
He's good to all of us and is fond of the kids he gets on best with the girls maybe because they are older?
However it seems to be coming apparent he has some kind of issue with my boy.
We live apart we have our own houses. Sometimes I stay there. Sometimes he stays with me. Any nights we're apart, my 5 year old boy will take full advantage & sneak in bed with me which I don't mind. We both love it. He's a real mummy's boy.
My partner said he should not be allowed to sleep in my bed ever?? I put him straight and told him not to comment etc.
there's been a few issues like this lately.
Today, during conversation I said if I had anymore children I'd love another boy (just conversation)
And his reply was.,, if we had a child together, he wouldn't be spoilt like my son and he went on to say he'd teach our child not to be a little snitch like him too !!
He's also made snarky comments if my boy has been off school poorly or whatever that his children will be sent to school come what may.
I feel this is a final straw for me as it's totally un called for and I feel totally offended if I'm honest.
For the record, my boy is well behaved. He has lots of energy like any 5 yr old but he is extremely loving and cuddly as that's how I've raised all the kids with pure love & togetherness.
May I add my partner has no children & no experience of being a parent.
I feel he's got it in for my son. Maybe jelous that my son is the most needy of me because he's so young.
Honestly I'm so angry. Am I being over the top??
Xx