But of a weird one but interested to get other peoples perspectives!
We have been in a relationship for around 18 months with a break of about 3 months about half way through that.
Everything has been going well and I was thinking we were making progress & was starting to relax a bit.
Last time I saw him he said he thinks we have sex to much and maybe we shouldn’t have any at all next month !
The relationship was initially mostly physical and based on attraction, we have been making an effort this time around to do more fun things together although we do still have a lot of sex. The last couple of weeks in particular we have been having a lot, I wouldn’t say it’s me that instigates it and it is about 50/50. Now he’s has announced we are having to much sex.
I feel hurt and like it is because he has gone off me or that he thinks the sex we are having isn’t adventurous or exciting enough. When I’ve tried to open a conversation about things he would like etc though it is like trying to get blood out of a stone!