Husband cheated on me with an escort

[TheGreyLeader]

We have been married for 30 years and my sex life wasn’t always great because of him we get along really well but his sex drive was never as high as it should be i have always confronted him about it and actually that was always my biggest problem in my marriage but recently it started to get worse and worse even with me having to initiate it he started to find excuses like having a bad tummy…😅. it started to affect me badly emotionally and physically I advised him to take tests and everything else
he is saying that he hasn’t got any health issues but I really think he has ED and he’s hiding it from me
lately i discovered that he cheated on me with an escort when confronted he said he did it just to see if he really had ED or not since all tests came back negative
he said that everything was fine with the sexworker so now he believes that he has ED just with me !!
obviously I am extremely hurt and upset
i feel betrayed i don’t think I could ever trust him again I have asked for divorce but he wants me to forgive him and that his only purpose was not to cheat on me but just to experience it with another woman to see if it’s still functioning or not he wants me to help him get through this
ps:he used medicines before but even with medications it stopped working with me lately

Just get rid. That's what you do with vermin.

Once again, please remember he is a proven liar and he definitely did not get caught using prostitutes the first time. Please leave this grotesque excuse for a man and rebuild your life and self worth. Good luck.

This excuse for me is worse than him just saying 'moment of madness ect' to insult you on top of cheating... OP seriously consider if you can continue a relationship with a man who not only cheats but then blames you for his ED. I'd be questioning my whole relationship

Get rid

I wouldn't go near a man who even thought it was ever an okay thing to do.

Not surprised his sex drive is low when he's most probably investing his time, money and energy, on escorts. And I’d bet he’s been doing this for a while. I’d see a divorce lawyer and get an Sti check asap

he wants me to help him get through this

Is he having a fucking laugh?
Crack on with the divorce.
He's a piece of shit.

I'd lay money that his prostitute had a penis.....

Was his 'experiment' worth potentially exposing you to hpv, thus increasing your risk of cervical cancer? Condoms can't protect against that. Make sure you are up to date with smear tests and have an sti check - and divorce, it's a no brainer, he's instant gratification was more important than your health, unforgivable IMO.

He should have talked to you first to see if its something you would consider

Mums net will definitely be ltb. But the lack of pressure to perform with an escort is a good test to see if is ed is psychological/ emotionally linked

Another point. Are you sure it was a female escort?

What, if she'd like to test if a male escort's dick worked with her?

Yeah he definitely should have asked her that first before he booked ABC used a prostitute for himself.

Exactly my point!