Hi. So just wondering what you guys would do in a little situation I’m in.
So my ex boyfriend from 14/15 year ago has started messaging me nearly daily for the last fortnight, he’s always kept in touch sometime s not for 6 month and others just every now and again, friendly how are you, screen grabs of Facebook memories. Occasional remember this, but he can get a bit flirty to which I remind him of his wife which he protests how happy they are, anyway. Lately the messages are daily. How’s your day, doing much at the weekend… silly things to start a conversation. he’s married with kids as am I. It’s a platonic relationship but it’s nice we can have a friendship considering out break up was really hard and I dare say if it wasn’t for his family we could of lasted but I’d had enough and even he admits they played a large part of the break up. But anyway, would you guys ask him why all of a sudden he’s contacting me daily or just leave it? I don’t want to come across as ‘why are you messaging me lots lately’ when he could just be taking a general interest in what I’m up to and maybe I’m thinking too much into it but I do think it’s a bit weird