My partner hasn't come home

[2amclubx]

Basically my parter went out with a friend this afternoon told me he'd be home for 10! Messaged me and said he's having fun will be later it's now half 3 his phone is off and I can't get a hold of him this is very odd behaviour the friend that hes with I don't really trust he takes cocaine When he's out and as far as I'm aware my partner doesn't this friend he hasn't seen for awhile but I'm now worried this friend is staying in a hotel do I call??? I have no contact bar Facebook for the friend last active 7 hours ago I'm really worried haven't slept at this point a little message would be fine but I haven't heard from him since 7ish he never ever does this I mean never..

Wow talk about victim blaming. The OP had no idea he would take cocaine, she said he's showing sides he's never shown before. Was she supposed to be psychic? He is the only one responsible for him taking cocaine.

I'm really sorry OP, the only way I'd possibly consider carrying on is if he agreed not to see this 'friend' again. If he doesn't like it that's fine and he's free to leave.

@TwylaSands true 😄
Might have more rights to some money through divorce. Or if he dies I get all of it.

Why cant you divorce him rather than wait for him to divorce you?

My step sister hoped she'd outlive her dh. In her case it was that she earned more and had the pension.

She died at 42. He pissed through all their money on drugs. Their 12 yo and 16 yo were abandoned and suffered greatly.

If you are unhappy leave for your kids sake. It's up to you to show them how to be emotionally healthy.