I am in touch with women’s aid dur to domestic abuse, I’ve only really started to admit it to myself very recently.
A few months ago my husband and I discussed having a threesome I said it was a terrible idea but at his insistence and he was going through a nice period I gave in.
Anyway as to be expected it didn’t go well.
Afterwards he was shouting at me to apologise for kissing this person even though he said ok to that and made up most of the rules.
He started saying he wanted to divorce etc, and as we were on holiday that night he drove me into the town walked so fast I lost him and he gave me money and told me to get my own dinner.
ive put up with a lot of bad behaviour from him (physical and emotional) always believing in his good side.
I did something I shouldn’t have and I met up with this other person for a few hours. I shouldn’t have done it and there’s no excuse.
Husband of course found out and has told everyone we know about my fling failing to mention the threesome or how I even met this person. He also tried 2 weeks later to get me to go to a swingers club and to have another threesome !!!!!
He also told my 17 year old son that I’d had an affair !!!!! Even though I begged him not to and that it was our business nobody needed to know. He said he was the victim and our son and other people should know
Now I’m experiencing terrible behaviour from my son. He’s lost respect for me. I feel so upset. I am making plans to leave him though it is a slow process