So I’ve been with my boyfriend officially for around 8 months, things have been good up until a few weeks ago really. He started acting distant through text messages, we haven’t had sex in a couple of weeks which hasn’t been our pattern at all. He almost never goes on his phone around me unless he’s showing me things but it’s rare. He takes it everywhere with him, bathroom breaks have increased too but maybe that’s me being paranoid.
I have been with him the past two days, everything has been fine until earlier when he was showing me a quick video he found funny and someone text him but they were only saved as an initial, I didn’t think much of it until he noticed I had noticed and he blasted out ‘why is she texting me?’. I said ‘who?’ He said oh an old friend, I said what did she say? He said that she said ‘hi?’ but they haven’t spoken in months apparently, I asked for her name he said that he doesn’t want to give it because I will look for her etc and I have the wrong end of the stick, I said text her now in front of me and ask what she wants, he did. He then went to the toilet and said oh she was asking me a question about a guy, asking if I know someone? I said show me and he said he’d deleted it. I’ve barely spoken to him all night and I am going home tomorrow.