Is this OK?

[kdmummyx]

Is this okay ? earlier my two sons (5years & 3 years) were arguing over a toy to cut the story short my youngest son was very upset and threw up over my partners leg as he was crying. I came downstairs to find both the kids upset and one had been sick - I reacted to my partner about the way he handled the situation regarding the toy and that our son had now been sick due to crying - he then picked up (TMI) the bits of sick off his leg (was chunks of apple I believe sorry !!) and threw the sick at my face. I’ve explained to him how this isn’t okay in my mind and he said ‘it’s just a bit of apple’ am I in the wrong or is that totally not ok to do ??

If he spat in your face that is assault. Not much difference.
All the best with your next chapter whenever you are ready for it.

You have 2 issues here:
Your husband who is disgusting for throwing this and your child who clearly has an issue! Throwing your child because they didn't get their own way!!
Good luck with them both x

He would be an ex partner.

Is it a wonder the child is behaving like this though if they are witnessing their father throwing vomit at their mother??

Why do you need reassurance this is not ok?
Would you need assurance that a shove was not ok? Or a smack in the face?
You are a parent. Your kids should be fully confident that you have their backs. If you have to come onto a forum to check everything, that's not reassuring

How can it be 'right' or 'wrong'? That would need there to be a set of rules.

this isn’t okay in my mind

Well, there you go then. We all have to make our own rules. If it's not ok with you, then anybody who loves you or cares about how you feel will respect that.