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Don't know where to put this

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PostingAnonymously2 · 29/12/2023 17:22

Not sure where to put this as I am not in a relationship right now.
I am seeing a guy, we’ve been on 4 dates and I’m meant to be seeing him after the new year next week.
I met him off Bumble and we slept together on our last date.
I’ve found out I’m pregnant and really don’t know how to tell him. I’m starting to panic a bit and heart keeps racing every time I think about it.
He did mention wanting to have more kids on our last date, but obviously this was something that’s meant to happen later down the line.
I know I need to prepare myself mentally for the type of reaction he might have, but I honestly don’t know how to tell him.

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gooli · 31/12/2023 20:39

How old are you? Are you prepared to bring up a kid alone if he doesn't want it. Personally unless I thought there was no other chance of me getting pregnant or finding a partner to parent with then is like be considering a termination considering how hard it is to bring up kids. Good luck with what thou decide x

strawberry2017 · 31/12/2023 20:44

Is it his?
If you have only had 4 dates and only slept together once has there been enough time for it to be his baby?
What's the actual time frame for all this?

determinedtomakethiswork · 31/12/2023 22:45

Assume you've got pregnant on the first time you slept with him. How long ago was that?

Honestly, I would not go through with this. It's hard being a single mum, and that's without having a father who is hostile to the pregnancy.

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