Hello,
new here and looking for some advice.
my new girlfriend got pregnant back in the summer and sadly miscarried. It was a close call and we sat and had a serious conversation about things.
long story short she had a coil fitted and and we agreed we wouldn’t look again at children until we were in a safe secure relationship. (I’m currently going through a divorce).
I’ve been suffering very badly with mental health mainly due to my divorce and the pregnancy and my relationship with the girlfriend is very up and down and all my friends and family are telling me to move on.
however I recently discovered a pregnancy test(one missing from packet) when I asked she said she was just checking and didn’t really know as she’s new to the coil etc.
I’ve been really worried she’s lying and the other day checked her phone and she had a “flo” app saying 9 weeks pregnant!
i haven’t said anything to her yet although over the last weeks (randomly) I’ve been saying how we were so lucky and that if she got pregnant again I wouldn’t cope mentally and that I’m glad I can trust her etc!
I really don’t know what to do should I confront her? I’m saying with her family over Christmas and don’t want to cause a huge scene and ruin everyone’s Christmas.
if she is pregnant then I know I’ll hate her and never want to speak to her again I’m devastated.