I want to start by saying I have improved massively over the years with my dating anxiety but I still sometimes get these little twinges of doubt that set in and I really am trying to ignore them and not to worry so much.
So to give full details
So I’ve had a total of 3 dates with a guy, each date roughly 5/7 days apart.
Date 1 - coffee which lasted 4 hours in end, he followed up with text within the hour asking for second date
Date 2 - evening drinks, until closing with goodnight kiss or 5, he followed up as soon as he was home thanking me and asking for another date
Date 3 - dinner, stayed till we were kicked out and again plenty of goodnight kisses, again followed up same evening asking to go out again etc
So we’ve had daily communication all the way through not constant bombarding of texts but regular throughout day, like yesterday we texted in morning he knew I was out for day with sister shopping so later in arvo he messaged to ask how day was going etc.
When I told him about somewhere nice I had lunch he said “we should go there one day”
We chat and convo isn’t difficult we seem to have a lot in common
I thought all this sounded ok and healthy but I friend has put me on edge as she thinks it’s strange we don’t text more and that we haven’t actually go a agreed day for our next date we just agreed to go out and now got me over thinking as she thinks it’s a sign he has plenty of options
Can anyone else spot any raging red flags 🚩