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I'm interested in your opinions... if your ex was saying this...

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Onehouratatime · 20/11/2023 19:39

If your ex was saying he wanted to talk to see if you could fix things after 2 months of you being blocked by him (no reason for this just blocked me when I was trying to talk through our issues) then you found out he was on not one but two dating apps.... would this bother you? How would you feel?

I knew about one dating app, my friend saw him on it and told me about it and then my other friend found him a few days later on another dating app also this is in the time period we are talking again... I get he is single but asking if we can try and see if we can fix things but it's head fucking that while doing that he's active on dating apps and want your opinions please

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Onehouratatime · 24/11/2023 22:18

Thank you all so much

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Xmaswomble · 24/11/2023 22:20

I’d think it was totally fine. Blocking you and dating others - why would he not? Especially if you’d been going on about ‘issues’. You’d be a fool not to jump at the chance to take him back.

Fraaahnces · 24/11/2023 22:22

Honestly I would assume that he isn’t as successful at pulling from the aps and thought you’d be a shoo-in. Block and delete.

Onehouratatime · 25/11/2023 14:09

Pinkbonbon · 24/11/2023 17:04

Why on earth are you telling this person how he hurt you and in the same text, asking how he is?

I believe the youths of today call this 'being a simp'. Id just say - you're being a doormat.

I'd simply go 'OK, cool, never mind then, life's too short for your shit, byeeeeee'. The block him as soon as he reads it, before he can reply. Dont let him reply/read his reply. Block him on everything.

Normally I'd advise just blocking but I think you'll dwell on it less if you don't leave off on a ghosted note. Take back your power.

Sorry my quick typing - I didn't do it in the same message on Saturday evening I messaged him and said he hurt me he replied Sunday I then processed the information for a few days and messaged on Thursday telling him I've taken a few days to process and wanted to see how you were. There was a gap in my messages however yes I'm being a doormat 100%

I'm going no contact now because he clearly can't get past our "issues" to fix us so I won't reply and I'll go no contact

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