Just that really. The man is an utter pig, a horrible spineless fool. I've put up with his crap for 9 years, 9 whole long years. I've always held my head high and treated him with respect and grace but I actually can't do it anymore. He comes round to my house to see my husband, hardly acknowledges me but bosses me around at the same time. Says awful things about me and my family in front of our children... for example, we bought our eldest a tablet for his birthday and when he opened it my FIL said 'it's a good job your dad has a good job, your mum wouldn't be able to afford that' for reference i work part time in a well paid career to enable our family to grow and his sons career to flourish.
I can't do it anymore, he'll comment if my house is 'a mess' or if he comes round and I'm in my loungewear and it's 'gone 10am' 😅 I can't put up and shut up anymore. He's ex army and everyone seems to be scared of him, including my DH.
My youngest asked why is grandad nasty to you mummy? She's 3. It's ruining my relationship, he causes so many arguments. I don't want him to see me or my children anymore, he's toxic. What the hell do I do.