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IPhone "website data"..... is it porn i found???? "Pghub.io"

38 replies

Werestillkids · 09/11/2023 10:29

I'm in a relationship with someone who has watched porn behind my back during times we were fighting and not physically intimate and right before I learned thar he had watched porn he was verbally attacking me, saying things like I don't love him because I can't trust him, how I'm ruining the relationship, I'm the problem and many other things... right before he came clean and seemed to try to be crying as he did....... (we both thought I found a website that would connect to his phone and be able to show me deleted as well as incognito mode history.. it ended up not working but we didn't find that out until after he finally came clean.... well it's been Manu months now and we had an argument tonight and he left me with his phone after getting angry at me after i found some girl thar he's subscribed to on snapchat... that im not awarw of.... (I checked snapchars "my friends" stuff and she IS someine HE added on his own and was never there before until recently.... which is a whole different talk...) I found this 18.2kb file titled "pghub.io" it obviously looks A LOT like "porn hub" or "pornographic hub" I just don't know if I am correct about this and hope someone out there eith more knowledge on this can help me....

IPhone "website data"..... is it porn i found???? "Pghub.io"
OP posts:
UpUpUpU · 09/11/2023 10:32

Why is he not allowed to watch porn?

Olika · 09/11/2023 10:39

No it's not porn! A simple Google search tells you what it is.

Ianz · 09/11/2023 10:40

Pghub is more like a pop up than anything so it's not porn.

Mudflaps · 09/11/2023 10:42

Why are you in a relationship with him? You don't seem happy or relaxed, you have a problem with who he has on social media plus the porn? Maybe time to leave him?

SoRainbowRhythms · 09/11/2023 10:43

It's not pornhub.

What are you getting from this relationship? Sounds like you're both pretty miserable.

Scissor · 09/11/2023 10:47

I'd be much more worried about his mental health with the amount of religion and visiting Mind.org.uk
Poor bloke.
You are not happy. You even have his phone and that is not healthy.

MercanDede · 09/11/2023 10:48

At 18.2kb it is a cookie. “pghub.io” is the cookie for the postgraduate SQL database that U.K. university websites are linked to. It’s not porn.

IHateLegDay · 09/11/2023 10:50

Why are you going through his phone and checking up on his Snapchat?
Honestly you don't trust him and he's not bothered about being faithful to you so just break up.

Maybe learn to respect people's privacy as well.

4naansjeremy · 09/11/2023 10:51

Does he know you are going through his phone? I couldn’t live like that.

SoRainbowRhythms · 09/11/2023 10:51

4naansjeremy · 09/11/2023 10:51

Does he know you are going through his phone? I couldn’t live like that.

Sorry to derail but cool username 🙌

MercanDede · 09/11/2023 10:52

As a rule of thumb, any website data in the KB are cookies picked up from other websites. If you visit a website, the data you pick up will run into MB.

You will ruin your relationship if you continue to require that he disclose and seek permission for every interaction with another female online as well as subject his phone/devices to intrusive examination by you.

WeeOrcadian · 09/11/2023 10:53

This isn't healthy, for either of you.

You're more concerned he's watching porn than the fact that he's on mind.org, etc

Do yourself and him a favour - call it a day - neither of you are getting what you want from this 'relationship'

Hmindr68 · 09/11/2023 10:55

You’re looking at the wrong problem.

catsnhats11 · 09/11/2023 10:56

You are totally overstepping boundaries, so what if he adds female friends to snapchat, don't you trust him and why are you trying to check what websites he visits - downloading special software to see his incognito mode?! Unless there is a lot more too this, he'd be better off without you tbh

catsnhats11 · 09/11/2023 10:57

And get some help for your insecurity/ trust issues

HookahSmokingCaterpillar · 09/11/2023 11:01

How old are you both? You sound very immature so I'm guessing quite young? If this were my son, and his girlfriend was acting like this I'd be very concerned and having a word. This isn't normal behaviour.

booboo24 · 09/11/2023 11:04

I agree with everyone, he's left you with his phone for heaven's sake, what more proof do you need that he's not doing anything wrong!

A pp said he's not interested in being faithful, I don't agree, the poor bloke is being scrutinised to the nth degree and this is all you've found?

Heyahun · 09/11/2023 11:05

you sound very insecure and controlling -why are you going through his phone

if you dont trust the guy splitup and move on with your life

the whole thing is weird - being like a mum taking her childs phone

Opentooffers · 09/11/2023 11:07

If there's no trust, there's no point.

WhatGoesUpMustComeDown · 09/11/2023 11:08

There is no trust between you - once you start checking someone's phone your relationship is doomed. This does not sound like a healthy pairing for either of you. Get out now and try and find someone who makes you feel valued and safe.

Anothernick · 09/11/2023 11:17

PG hub = postgraduate hub

alchemisty · 09/11/2023 11:28

IHateLegDay · 09/11/2023 10:50

Why are you going through his phone and checking up on his Snapchat?
Honestly you don't trust him and he's not bothered about being faithful to you so just break up.

Maybe learn to respect people's privacy as well.

I don't see any cheating? Just really controlling behaviour by OP, no wonder the poor bloke is driven to so much mental health and religion help online

Barbs775 · 09/11/2023 11:55

I'm sorry if I've misunderstood but, are you saying you used a site or software to pull up his search history?

Ashleysaidwhat · 09/11/2023 11:58

When I stream TV shows from dodgy websites (pirate) I get millions of pop ups for those sorts of websites.

Ashleysaidwhat · 09/11/2023 12:00

Posted too soon...

This is also deeply unhealthy and toxic not to mention controlling. You both need to leave and work on yourself

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