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IPhone "website data"..... is it porn i found???? "Pghub.io"

38 replies

Werestillkids · 09/11/2023 10:29

I'm in a relationship with someone who has watched porn behind my back during times we were fighting and not physically intimate and right before I learned thar he had watched porn he was verbally attacking me, saying things like I don't love him because I can't trust him, how I'm ruining the relationship, I'm the problem and many other things... right before he came clean and seemed to try to be crying as he did....... (we both thought I found a website that would connect to his phone and be able to show me deleted as well as incognito mode history.. it ended up not working but we didn't find that out until after he finally came clean.... well it's been Manu months now and we had an argument tonight and he left me with his phone after getting angry at me after i found some girl thar he's subscribed to on snapchat... that im not awarw of.... (I checked snapchars "my friends" stuff and she IS someine HE added on his own and was never there before until recently.... which is a whole different talk...) I found this 18.2kb file titled "pghub.io" it obviously looks A LOT like "porn hub" or "pornographic hub" I just don't know if I am correct about this and hope someone out there eith more knowledge on this can help me....

IPhone "website data"..... is it porn i found???? "Pghub.io"
OP posts:
HangingOver · 09/11/2023 12:07

Fuck me, if any of my partners insisted on forensically going through my devices I'd leave them immediately.

Wavescrashingonthebeach · 09/11/2023 12:09

Why didn't you just Google the Web address ffs

I agree this relationship needs to end you don't trust him in the slightest

Grow up and work on yourself

catsnhats11 · 09/11/2023 12:15

Barbs775 · 09/11/2023 11:55

I'm sorry if I've misunderstood but, are you saying you used a site or software to pull up his search history?

She said she tried to that but it didn't work, but by the time they realised it wouldn't work he'd already "confessed" - poor guy.

Nicole1111 · 09/11/2023 12:28

Tell me you’re in a very unhealthy relationship without telling me you’re in a very unhealthy relationship. Op has gone first

Barbs775 · 09/11/2023 13:07

catsnhats11 · 09/11/2023 12:15

She said she tried to that but it didn't work, but by the time they realised it wouldn't work he'd already "confessed" - poor guy.

It's stalking behaviour. It's controlling and awful. OP google technology facilitated abuse. This is what you tried to do.

4naansjeremy · 09/11/2023 14:27

SoRainbowRhythms · 09/11/2023 10:51

Sorry to derail but cool username 🙌

That’s insane!

NameHopper2000 · 09/11/2023 16:21

I think he needs to leave you.

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 09/11/2023 16:39

HangingOver · 09/11/2023 12:07

Fuck me, if any of my partners insisted on forensically going through my devices I'd leave them immediately.

The request alone would see them out of the door without their feet touching the ground.

Momma4486 · 30/09/2024 16:19

Don’t listen to these fools. Everyone has had an issue in their lives they cannot get over. You just haven’t healed. When you start to believe he’s telling the truth something else unfolds that makes you doubt everything. Trust is Everything! When someone breaks it after you told them your boundaries it’s hard to come back from that, but you still love the person and that’s where it gets tough. You don’t want to leave because you’re afraid you’ll never find it again, but you’re not scared to leave because you’ll be alright either way. If he is disrespecting you like that after you’ve already told him what your boundaries are then that is a tough choice, but then again you can always do better my friend. Love is everywhere you just have to let it find you and heal in the process. When love finds you, you’ll be in a good place and have more to offer than doubts and inquisition. Choose you and everything will fall into place. I eft my husband of 6 yrs after he lied, was chatting up girls on the net, and lieing about working. I am now a very secure single mother of 2 and I went back to school to become a nurse. Things like this will motivate you, the only thing you need to do is let go of what’s hurting you. Whether it feels secure or not let go and live for you everything else will follow! Hoping for the best for you:)

VimesandhisCardboardBoots · 30/09/2024 16:23

No, it's not. It's an advertising platform.

End the relationship though, because you don't trust him and are being spectacularly controlling. It's an entirely unhealthy dynamic for both of you to be in.

Olika · 30/09/2024 16:36

This thread is from November 2023!

VimesandhisCardboardBoots · 30/09/2024 16:43

Olika · 30/09/2024 16:36

This thread is from November 2023!

Gah, bloody zombie threads!

JamieKnight · 30/09/2024 17:05

If you don’t have trust in your relationship then you may as well just walk away.

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