my friend is 15 weeks pregnant and yesterday she said she had something to tell me....
the baby is not her dps. she had a one night stand outside a club and the baby belongs to this bloke - she doesn't even know his name. it cant be her dps as they are very careful, always using comdons. he was shocked at first but has come round to the idea of a brother or sister for there ds who is 2.5.
there is also the added problem that the bloke she slept with is black, her and her dp are both white. the baby will be mixed race and very obviously not dps.
she doesnt know what to do. if she confesses to dp he will leave her and she loves him loads. her only excuse for what happened is that she was very drunk and can hardly remember it happening, she doesnt go out very much but it was her 20th birthday.
her dp is 22 and they have been together for 4 years, she says she cannot confide in her family as they would be disgusted at her behaviour and have never really gotten over her having ds at a young age and the fact that shes 'living in sin' doesnt help either.
i didnt know what to say and was basically very shocked to say the least. i dont know what to tell her - can anyone advise please?????
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christmasstuffing · 18/12/2004 21:17
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