Yep, you can do better.
I know a tradesman who's a weed smoker .... He doesn't work as much as he should due to it. He claims he doesn't smoke in the house around his kids ... But then talks about smoking in the car, which is their family car, only car and the one he gives them lifts everywhere in.
His use seems to cross over into dealing; I'm wondering if he'll ever get caught by the cops etc with dealer amounts in his car, and the consequences of that.
He and his partner clash regularly over how much weed he smokes.
They argue and bicker in general pretty regularly.
They agreed to reduce his weed and her drinking to save money and improve their lifestyle; that has not happened.
He uses tragedies in his life as excuses for the weed smoking, but never goes for any counselling.
He is incoherent by a certain time of night.
He waxes lyrical about all the benefits of weed, but is rather less eloquent on the downsides.
He's been at it for years, and apparently weed has sort of been GM'd to be stronger than before.
It's also a risk for mental health difficulties and breaks. Bad enough if you had no kids with him, a nightmare if you did.