After a few years of basically a sexless marriage, husband freezing me out and me going mad at knowing something was happening, but not being able to find evidence. I finally have found that he has been using software to make deep fake porn of an ex student (university) of his. He is 40, she was about 18 in the photos.
I knew he had checked out of this marriage but always proclaimed he hadn't, that he loved me etc. Anyway, it's not the first time porn has controlled his life. I'm done, I am getting my ducks in a row. I have 3 kids and a life so it is devastating. But this is what I need help with. I want to tell the woman. He would often have contacted her as he helped her get jobs in the past, both in same profession now etc. Obviously I am angry and feel vengeful. But I was raped as a teenager and photos taken of me, so that could be influencing me also. I also want her to know so she can stay away from him. He hasn't shared them, so otherwise she wouldn't know. If she never had contact with him, I wouldn't tell her. But he contacted her recently to tell her about this great design software he has been using! Scary how much of a moral compass he lacks.