Freudian slip?

[Overthinkin]

For context been together 9 years, in this time I have only been on the pill or copper coil.

The other day while talking about possibly TTC, he said "maybe you can go get that thing taken out your arm" he knows I have the coil, it's been mentioned many times, he's joked about pulling it out himself.

Why would he say this? When he saw my confusion he quickly checked himself n told.me not to overthink it. I left it a couple days but it's still on my mind.
I asked him about 10 mins ago why he said it, who did he know that had it? n he got all defensive saying he doesn't know, turning it on me like I'm being unreasonable.
Wtf? This doesn't seem like a normal mistake.

I said he'd never tell me anyway if there was anything to it, he told me to fuck off.

I don't feel like I'm overthinking it

This is no way to live OP.

You know about his previous adultery. You don't trust him. Things haven't always been.good between you. He tells you to fuck off.

You can make other choices OP. I know that's difficult when you really want something to work, but it's got yo be better than living in a constant state of suspicion about someone who seems to have no respect for you.

Honestly, don’t do this either!

If you are that concerned about where someone is to the point of stalking them, your relationship needs to end.

He doesn’t sound like a great guy TBH. And if you get together with a cheater you will always have nagging doubts.

His behaviour is suspicious, he has form, he told you to fuck off. What a prince!

Do NOT have children with this man unless you really want to be on your own trying to prise CSA payments out of a feckless, selfish man.

He's now saying I'm mental, that it's all in my head. That I'll regret bein like this with him when I'm sat all on my own cause he's had enough.
Simply cause I said its just a too weird thing to say by accident.

I'd be sad if he left but I'd get over it and I wouldn't be stewing in my head wondering If he's lying to me, making me feel like I'm goin crazy

More abuse! Gaslighting!

Please leave this man!

He's now saying I'm mental, that it's all in my head. That I'll regret bein like this with him when I'm sat all on my own cause he's had enough.
He's following that well worn, dog eared script then isn't he. You know the answers from that script as well. Stay and get further abused, have a child or two and end up very ill, very broken, with broken children. Or leave and have a happier life. Which do you choose?

I wouldn't have necessarily found the comment suspicious, but everything that's come after indicates he's cheating.

It's usually guilty people who get angry when accused of something.

He's now gaslighting you, and trying to condition you not to speak up when something bothers you for fear of him leaving.

Don't have a baby with this man. I think you need to seriously reconsider this relationship.

OP,

Are you really so desperate as to have a child with a known cheat and liar who calls you mental and tells you to fxxk off?

Are you?

Bet he said the same thing to his Ex.

Dump him.

You are 100% wasting your time.

I wouldn't trust him as far as I'd throw him.

Would a previous girlfriend of had an implant?

Do you think he's cheating? Trust your gut feeling.