Would you believe him?

[Sunnyday1203]

I have just found out that my partner invited woman to his hotel room after heavy drinking at family event that I was not at. This was end of last year. I found this out as I just sensed something was not right so decided to look at his phone and found he was texting her this month. exchanging flirty messages and intimate photos. It made me feel sick.
I confronted him and he said he did not do anything and she was in his room for only 15 mins and threw up and was picked up by a friend. My point is the intention was there though.
We have been having some issues recently and he claimed he felt neglected and again was drunk. Clearly this boosted his ego.
I just don't know what to believe, reading the messages certainly does not indicate they had sex but it gives me the ick.

hev I hear you. No dick pics thank god she sent him pics of her breasts. You would think a 61 year old would know better. I actually sent her a message saying just that.

You had another recent thread where you said this partner was making you choose between him and your adult son. It ended with you saying he's moved out and accused you of ending the relationship. Is he back again?

I don't know why you're entertaining this relationship OP if the things you say about him are true.

Tic It's complicated but yes he has moved back in. My son is fine atm and son is my priority. Other than this issue of trust things which I am really struggling with, things are much better but only time will tell.

I scrolled through your previous posts and saw that he broke into your mumsnet account before.
I think he plays innocence but knows exactly what he is doing and leaves you with tons of questions and insecurity.
I would (say) RUN!

Tig I vaguely remember that. He has behaved really badly I can't deny that.

Why can't he delete her, because he is claiming not to know how or because he doesn't want to?

He said he has cut all contact and will leave his phone open if I want to check. She has been removed from his FB friend.

He's tech savvy enough he's found your MN account before but he can't do what I just did and Google 'can you delete a WhatsApp contact' which would tell him that he can, and then explain how to do so? Do you not feel pissed off that he's so obviously lying?

It's such a shame you've moved this wanker back into your home despite the fact he's also caused huge issues for your son. I feel really sorry for your son 😞

Don't feel sorry for my son, he is doing ok and has my 100% support. He really does need to sort his life out and hopefully that is happening Well I have just tried to delete a Whatsapp contact on my phone and cant do it either which is weird. Can block though.

Well I have just tried to delete a Whatsapp contact on my phone and cant do it either which is weird. Can block though.

That is very strange indeed... Did you follow the steps in the screenshot I shared?

Yes did that, blocking was the only option which I know he has done. Mind you I am a bit of a technophobe lol

U can delete a conversation by holding it and then delete. Then u need to delete the contact out of main phone book for it to disappear out of WhatsApp completely