Is anyone in a situation where your husband/partner/significant other does absolutely nothing to help?
I'm at the point where I just don't think I can cope anymore, he just does nothing to help me. I'll ask him to help clean or tidy the house or garden and its just a straight up no. He shouldn't have to do it basically because it's either "I'm at work today so don't want to have to do anything when I'll be working later" or it's a "It's my day off and I want to relax so why should I do it" yet I work too and don't have the luxury of saying I can't do XYZ because I'm working today or I can't do it because it's my day off and I want to relax. He doesn't even help to cook and flat out refuses to wash any pots once I've cooked.
It constantly ends up in massive arguments when I'm basically begging for some help to still be told no. He says when I can afford to put half the bill money in to the joint he'll do half the housework... but he gets paid five times more than I do so it's just not possible for me to do that right now!