I get texts monthly from my ex just asking "how are you?". Like, why? It's almost a year since he divorced me and I have not received a single apology for all the bullshit he put me through, which means I am not very excited to talk to him and only give him short replies. We have not agreed to be friends or have contact. He was really cold and mean for the last year of our relationship and it felt like he hated me, so it's hard to even imagine he'd want to be friends now. It's so annoying to get these meaningless texts.