Crisis row , difficult husband

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reposted this from 30 days

I had a row with husband today about his behaviour - domineering and unsupportive, difficult, possible gas lighting.
we were supposed to go out tonight to celebrate an adult child’s achievement. When it came time to go, he told said child he’s not going ‘ as your mother has been an arsehole’.
I don’t really use a lot of names etc and feel this is pretty bad behaviour though recognise others might think arsehole is not that offensive?? Thoughts pls as yes I’m a bit sensitive and am thinking about where we are going from here tomorrow. Thanks

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I feel for you it can be very hard to actually make that decision. I have been there, also after a long marriage, and might never have done it had he not had an affair, so that was the final straw! Book your holiday with just your children and have a good, long think whilst you are away. If he queries it l would tell him the reason why.