For what seems to be like a very long time coming now, my sister and I have fallen out and I think I am ready to cut her out of my life.
There are many reasons as to why I feel like this. She is a very selfish person and manipulates people to her own advantage. She doesn’t have a kind word to say about anybody and for years, I have said to myself “if she wasn’t my sister, I wouldn’t have her as a friend”.
My partner and I have helped her out recently and she has constantly taken the mickey. You give her an inch, she’ll take a mile, situation.
Last night, was the last straw for me. We had a heated discussion and that was it, she had blocked me on everything.
This type of thing has happened many times before, she is very unkind, not thoughtful in the slightest and is just generally a very selfish person. We have always managed to solve the problem - I say solve, lightly. She never apologises and we just somehow, go back to normal.
However, I’m fed up of it and I think I am ready to leave her behind and move on without her in my life. My children don’t need her as she isn’t a very stable auntie, she’s here when she needs something and will use them to fill the time… then gone when she’s bored and has something better (which is often!).
She’s never been a great sister to me and I think I’m done.
Has anyone else had a similar situation to this please and if so, how do you go on about it with family events etc?
Thank you in advance.