Too over the top for just acquaintances?

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My husband had been out on a day trip I had booked for him, my father and our daughter as a gift for father's day, and he up loaded the photos from the day to facebook, saying a great day thanks to my beautiful wife for booking this for us. He was the one taking the photos so none of them had him in them, they had my father and our daughter though.

A local women who we both know, and knows we are married commented with:

Or looks amazing love💞. Where you in the photos then💞 hope you had amazing day💞 love always 🦋xxx

To me this feels like a message which someone who is more than just friends would send a person. Does anyone else think its a bit too much for just acquaintances?

A bit too much. But she's making a move. The nerve.

What does your husband say about it?

I've only just seen it, he's out at the moment so I've not had a chance to ask him. He has replied to her saying, I was the photographer 🤣

Yes it is too much.....especially the love always comment. I'd ask husband why she would write that.

It's a bit incoherent, maybe she's had a few drinks. I wouldn't care about this at all.

Yeah she sounds drunk, thick and massively overinvested.

I'd have a word with her if I were you IYKWIM 🦴🦷☠

Have a look on her page, maybe she's like it with everyone

I'm thinking of replying to her with, a bit over the top 'love always'. , I hadn't realised you two were an item! Something I should know about?? And tagging my husband in to see how they respond...

Starting to fume now, the cheek of her on social media for everyone to see. Is she trying to shit stir maybe?

Frogmila, ah good idea. I'll take a look, thanks

Oh good god op don’t respond. That’ll be even cringier than her post. Which is no mean feat!

Don't do that! You'll only show yourself up. I doubt there's anything to it but if you're concerned, wait for DH to come home and ask him about it.

God yes don't say that 🙈

DO NOT SEND THAT.

I really wouldn't care, unless you feel super insecure about your relationship with him??

“Love always?” Hmmm you need tonip that in the bud.

I think a single question mark would be an acceptable response.

Fucking hell though, seriously who does this? Does she even realise she's commented? Seems more like she meant to post it to messenger and fucked up

This isn't the way.

She will be indignant and if she is trying to stir something up with your husband she will come off looking better from this.

Keep your counsel, check her usual comms style, if not assured that she's not just an 'aww love you hun!' type with everyone then ask your husband calmly in person why another woman is being so familiar.

Is she the eccentric type OP? Some people are just very naturally full on and just a bit "soppy" with everyone she doesn't necessarily want to shag your husband.

Thanks all, I've just read over my message and yep I'm not going to be posting that response. Just that I was so tamping then when I wrote that.

dooneyousmugelf, yes it does seem like something she meant to post in messenger but fucked up

ClickingTock123 I don't really know her well enough to say. I'm going to have a look at her page to see if she's like it with everyone.

I'm invested.

Keep us posted OP.

Definitely ask your husband in person. You'll be able to by his reaction ...

Keep us posted, OP. We will be here for you

She sounds like one of my mum's friends who regularly posts on my FB

"Darling lovely wee one 💞💞💞 gorgeous wee mans. Love our weeBertie Babes, stunnaahh 🥰🥰🥰"

I'm like 👀 but ignore..

I just find it's the people who aren't very bright that write in such a way

What nakes you say that? 💞💞💞🤩🤩🤩

Thank you all.

I've just looked on her page, she's clearly going through a bad patch, looks like she may have broken up with her boyfriend and her mental health isn't in the best place right now.

There no other soppy comments on her page to any other men. But she does like to use xxxx and ❤️ alot, mainly to her girl friends though.

I think I'm just going to mention to my husband, that I think her message was a bit too much and leave it at that.