My friend (let’s call her Julie) has been married for 6 years (I also know her DW). Julie seemed to be so very happily married until she met another woman at a work event and hit it off.
I met up with Julie last week and turns out her and OW are having a full blown affair and have been for around 8 weeks.
She is still saying she loves DW and can’t imagine a life without her and still pictures her future with DW. However she is hooked on OW and has no intention of ending things any time soon. It is of course only going to end in disaster.
I feel absolutely awful for her DW being none the wiser about this. I know the situation is nothing to do with me but equally when it goes tits up, Julie will come to me looking for support.
If your friend was in this mess (of their own making!) what advice would you give them?