Nervous DP isn’t as attracted to me anymore??

[meeeeeepmeep]

I don’t know if I’m just overthinking things. My DP says he thinks I’m beautiful and stunning and I don’t need make up etc. he will compliment me but sometimes I have to ask now.

Today whilst we were getting ready to go out, I walked in in a short tight gym top which he would normally love but he didn’t say anything. I had to ask him later if he likes it and he said “of course I do”. I felt like before I wouldn’t have had to ask, and he said “I was distracted by the chores” and “I help more around the house now we’ve been together longer, so I was just busy focusing on that”.

I later put up a story of me and my friend where my body looks good. He replied to it with a laughing face as there was funny content in it. I had to ask again about the outfit and he said he was “just focused on the funny part at first”.

Am I being silly??

Omg yes you’re being silly! Seriously??? Why do you need so much validation on how you look!

LOL - this is ridiculous.

In the nicest possible way OP - you need to grow up, you don't sound emotionally mature enough for a relationship if you think this is a problem. You can't badger him into complimenting you.

Been together 6 months I’m just worried because it’s changed

6 months?! Good grief. You need to take a deep breath and stop being so daft.

Is the compliment even worthwhile after you dig it out of him?

This sounds hard.

There's a double standard in your marriage. Not in everyone's. I compliment my other half every day.

Of course it changes. Novelty wears off and deeper more meaningful love grows in its place.

Yes it’s silly. Unfortunately this is what growing up in a world of social media validation has done to people.

Thank you all for your advice x

good grief!!!