yeah i think you should get him involved in sorting out and paying for childcare whilst you get a 'proper' job becuase he is being a dick
ou cant have a part time job, this is becuase you still wont work as hard as him
you must work equal hours
your job must involve buckets more martyredom.
but you must sit dow and clearly ask him - what job would make ou equal.
becuse if for instance you broke bricks all day
and he is a computer analyst
i suppose he could come to you and say " well your job hasn't got the mental stress that mmy job has, the deadlines, te reports"
but visa vera he could say " sat on your cushty arse whilst i am lierally working my fingers t thebone..call that a job"
tell him that when you ge this new job, that he will have to wash him own things and to pick a child and be responsibly for washing all that childs stuff and getting that child ready for nursery.childminder - this includes and food they might need.
tell him that you will take it in turns to do the weekly shop
time not money will be the premium when you start work.
i think you should make him aware that within this power play the only people wo will lose are the kids
and he should stop being a twat