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Husband posted a photo with his girlfriend

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Laz1 · 07/04/2023 21:43

Not too sure how to feel about my husband (separated) posting a public picture with his girlfriend on social media, a few hours after seeing DC for the first time in months. We've not started divorce proceedings as frankly I was hoping we'd get back together because of DC, however, I am not sure what his reasoning is.

I'm not jealous as such but I wasn't expecting he'd do something like this. He stopped posting our pictures on SM after our first year of marriage..

OP posts:
Mumtoboys82 · 26/02/2024 15:07

Phoebo · 07/04/2023 23:15

Brilliant!! Do this!

No, don't. Don't engage with it. Move on.

MrsTerryPratchett · 26/02/2024 15:26

OP just a thought. DD has a few friends who have divorced parents and one friend with parents who, while still together, clearly hate each other. She used to say she felt lucky her parents were together. Now she says she feels lucky her parents love each other. Her friend with the hateful parents are definitely messing their kids up far more than the friendly divorced ones. Yes, the openly hostile divorced ones are the worst but you can avoid that by being a bigger person.

It's a much bigger issue that he doesn't she his kids and doesn't want to provide for them.

vodkaredbullgirl · 26/02/2024 15:43

Zombie post

Fother · 26/02/2024 15:54

Laz1 · 07/04/2023 22:38

It's wrong of me to want to get back with him just for the kids. I would've been 100% been sacrificing my happiness and peace. I definitely do not like him nor love and haven't done so for a while before we separated. I didn't want to divorce in fear of my kids later blaming me for not waiting a little longer and giving 'our' family a chance. My family and his also influenced this decision.

urrrghhhh zombie

Epidote · 26/02/2024 15:56

Is the novelty. As PP said give the photo a like.

Redglitter · 26/02/2024 15:58

ZOMBIE THREAD

Tara336 · 26/02/2024 16:01

The best thing you can do for yourself is delete and block. My exh posted pictures of himself and ow on social media, plus videos of them with my dd. I deleted and blocked so he could post merrily away and nit bother me with it. OW had been nosing through my SM (be careful when you stalk people on FB and accidentally like profiles pics) so she got blocked too.

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