New guy I’m dating, we get along so well and there are definite feelings there between us but there are a few things that I have seen that I’m unsure about.
which of these things would you feel very strongly about and which would you let go? I feel like I’ve lost all perspective on things recently and don’t want to confuse my feelings for true compatibility
- his house is messy, unclean, I think he kept it up initially when I first started coming over but it is pretty bad- dishes everywhere, laundry everywhere, bathroom dirty, never seems to change bedding.
- smokes a lot, doesn’t always brush teeth going to bed
- doesn’t cook ever, has never done an actual full shop for food in the 4 months I’ve know him
- never complements me ever, feels strange as precious boyfriends have done so
- Never wants to do anything at weekends except sleep and slob about on sofa