My husband and I have been discussing the topic of anal sex for a while. He's eager and I'm cautious but curious.
I've made it clear we need to work up to it, so we brought a small plug.
Last night we were having sex and he asked if he could get the plug. I said yes. He disappeared off to get it and the lube. He was (I assumed) lubing it up.
The next thing I knew He'd inserted his penis into me, not the plug! He got a good 4/5 inches and the pain was unbearable, I genuinely didn't know what had happened!
He told me to "take my time" but I told him it hurt and moved away up the bed. He was visibly disappointed. He told me he just wanted to surprise me as we'd been discussing the POSSIBILITY of anal. I ended the session then and there and he asked if u forgave him. He hasn't brought it up again but idk how to feel about it. And it's playing in my mind.