My husband's employer hasn't been paying him properly for over a year. It's a small company and they're financially unstable. He's currently three months out of pocket and it's possible he won't recoup any of those losses - it's our entire safety net. He's essentially let his boss take advantage of him for months.
He's been looking for work for months already but isn't having much luck.
We currently live abroad so we might have to move back to the UK and into our VERY small house. We haven't lived there since we had our three kids and there's barely space for two adults. I'm terrified of how we'll cope but we don't have much choice as we can't survive here on my salary alone.
I'm so heartbroken and disappointed. I'm trying to be a supportive wife (his confidence has taken a massive knock) but I'm so incredibly annoyed and I don't know if I can get past this in terms of how I see him. It's like his brain can't function - I'm having to guide him through all of this but I work in a senior role and have huge pressures on me already at the moment.
Please tell me it's possible to regain respect once it's lost - he's a wonderful father and I don't want this to affect my marriage but I'm not sure how to get past this.
Thanks for reading.