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Getting2me · 2023-03-14T17:49:05+00:00

I've had a feeling lately that something isnt quite right about my relationship. Dp is at work. He works in furniture, the business also does wallpapers. he also delivers. It's a small business. We were just speaking on the phone. After a short while, there was nothing to talk about so he started speaking about a woman he met before me who he was seeing. It had nothing to do with anything we were talking about. He was delivering a couch to her and she led him to the bedroom and tried to have sex with him. He said he didnt do anything. I asked him how he ended up in her bedroom if he was delivering a couch but he couldnt tell me. It is glaringly obvious now that my feeling was right. I've told him I'm done and ended the call so he whatsapped me with this.

perfectcolourfound · 15/03/2023 07:37

Of itself, I don't think there's any evidence that he cheated.

Either he lied and this didn't happen (and he's trying to make you jealous?) OR she came on to him and he turned her down OR he's cheated.

You know him - which of those is the most likely?

In any case, if you don't trust him (whether rightly or wrongly) you will struggle to maintain a good relationship. Trust is the cornerstone of a healthy relationship.

booboo24 · 15/03/2023 08:17

Well what a horrible bunch MN is on this thread. What business is it of ours where OP lives, or what language they use? Answer the sodding question or ignore it, this isn't an episode of Morse!

Op there's nothing in that whatsapp exchange, or his story to say he's cheated, he told you she came on to him by tricking him into following her into the bedroom to look at wallpaper, it's feasible isn't it with how you've described his job? Is there any other evidence?

Cheeseandhoney · 15/03/2023 08:20

he told you she came on to him by tricking him into following her into the bedroom to look at wallpaper

yes, cos you need to be in a bedroom to have sex. 😂

jays · 15/03/2023 08:24

CandyLeBonBon · 14/03/2023 23:52

Did anyone shout 'pivot'?

😂😂😂

Newwardrobe · 15/03/2023 20:37

CandyLeBonBon · 14/03/2023 23:52

Did anyone shout 'pivot'?

🤣🤣

Clockpilot · 15/03/2023 21:09

I unfortunately mildly suspect my partner may be cheating. I'm male and she's female, we live in separate dwellings although this is never a problem. My issue is, that where we share a bed, she tends to cocoon herself within the sheets so I can not get too close(this is when she thinks I'm asleep) But she holds her phone tightly to herself and if I roll over to face her, she'll suddenly snap the case shut and put it next to the bed. Plus what I find even more strange, is that she also takes it into the wc with her, thinking that I never see her do this. I'm finding this covert activity increasingly annoying. We've been dating for six years and have a happy relationship, but the only two quarrels whatever ever had relates to the phone activity, and she gets angry and states that she is only reading the news or looking at her WhatsApp groups activity, but this is always between 2 and 6am when most of her friends are in bed. But why is she slamming her phone down when she realises I'm awake. I'm even looking at phone clone apps too put my mind at rest, but really don't want to take that route. Sorry for this very long first post, but I'm trusting this group for advice.
Thanks

MyMumsOnMN · 15/03/2023 21:15

Nothing to add, I'm just really confused.

MsDogLady · 15/03/2023 23:59

@Clockpilot, it’s best that you start your own thread so that posters can help you. Go to the top right and click on the Start New Thread button. Good luck!

CandyLeBonBon · 16/03/2023 12:27

Clockpilot · 15/03/2023 21:09

I unfortunately mildly suspect my partner may be cheating. I'm male and she's female, we live in separate dwellings although this is never a problem. My issue is, that where we share a bed, she tends to cocoon herself within the sheets so I can not get too close(this is when she thinks I'm asleep) But she holds her phone tightly to herself and if I roll over to face her, she'll suddenly snap the case shut and put it next to the bed. Plus what I find even more strange, is that she also takes it into the wc with her, thinking that I never see her do this. I'm finding this covert activity increasingly annoying. We've been dating for six years and have a happy relationship, but the only two quarrels whatever ever had relates to the phone activity, and she gets angry and states that she is only reading the news or looking at her WhatsApp groups activity, but this is always between 2 and 6am when most of her friends are in bed. But why is she slamming her phone down when she realises I'm awake. I'm even looking at phone clone apps too put my mind at rest, but really don't want to take that route. Sorry for this very long first post, but I'm trusting this group for advice.
Thanks

You probably need to start your own thread for this