Utterly confused by DH’s behaviour

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I know this might have been addressed on other threads but as my username and title suggests I am utterly confused and bewildered by DH’s behaviour. How do you separate narcissistic traits from autistic traits and how do you know if they are actually abusive or not? I’ve been kept awake crying at night so confused by it all.

I have come to the sad realisation that my marriage is not salvageable in the long term it’s just a matter of how long I stay with him. A leopard can’t change its spots. I’m enjoying life as much as I can with the dc and fiends and family and will continually reassess things moving forward. Thanks everyone for all your help and support.

A happy and healthy life awaits once you are free and you will wonder why it took you so long so good luck 😊

Try to end your marriage sooner rather than later; do not kick the can down the road by continually reassessing the same old. Certainly do not wait to end your marriage until your youngest is 18 or something!.

What do you want to teach your children about relationships and what are they learning here?.

Seek legal advice re all aspects of separation and divorce; after all knowledge here is power.