Ladies
Some of your posts break my heart.
Not because guys are letting you down but because you are letting yourselves down.
Are we that desperate that we text and text and cry and text?
We ask, we beg, we over analyse, we make excuses, we overlook bad treatment...
We hold on, grasp, cling and find toxic reasons for not letting go...
We hope things will change, we change in hopes he will come back, give us more...chasing an imaginary relationship.
Or we rage in anger because he didn’t call.
Please sisters, I have been there, I speak from the inside, let us have some self respect. Some self love, some self appreciation. Some confidence.
He is just a human. He is flawed.
He isn’t going to save you.
He isn’t going to change your life.
He isn't going to change for you.
And if you need him to change, he is not the one for you anyway.
What is yours can't be taken away from you.
If he wants to stay, he will.
If he wants to go, open the door.
If it’s not easy, thank you, NEXT!
You deserve more and you can give yourself more when you stop wanting to give to him who doesn't want and doesn't deserve from you anyway.