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He's texting but not asking me out

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pinksunsets · 29/01/2023 18:42

Met a guy on Bumble. Asked him out. We met up and had a great date! There was some kissing (but that's all). It's been 2 weeks since and he's been in touch regularly but no sign of a second date. And before everyone says just ask him out, it's 2023 etc etc, I asked him out the first time! What's the point of messaging if he's not going to make plans to see me again?

OP posts:
pinksunsets · 31/01/2023 18:46

Thanks @Discontinued. It's always been him initiating conversations - he hasn't left me hanging! (well apart from not asking me out!). It's disappointing but you can't take anything personally when it comes to OLD! Who knows what his deal is.

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Isthisexpected · 31/01/2023 18:53

I'd say he's doing a great job of keeping you around in case things don't progress with his preferred date(s).

Johnisafckface · 31/01/2023 22:09

I will admit I've done this when I start losing interest. It usually means I'm interested enough to chit chat but I don't care enough to move things forward.

Oblomov22 · 31/01/2023 22:12

So? What now?

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