From last three months, husband is acting fishy. He has joined snooker club etc . He is out most of the time and he has started drinking a lot recently. He doesn't like me to interrupt him by calling etc when he is out.
This afternoon I was cooking food but he left without eating. His response was that he was getting late for his game.
After three hours , I noticed he didn't take his car. His club is about 3 miles from our house.
I texted him about car and his reply was that he walked down.
I couldn't digest the fact that why would he walk if he is already getting late etc.
Then I noticed that he left his other phone on his desk. This phone is only for his WhatsApp and Tiktok . I couldn't control and looked at his phone. All his tiktok watch history was watching other women and he has sent five or six requests to local women in one particular day on facebook, a day before our 12th wedding anniversary.
He sleeps in different room because of mattress issues and always on phone .
I feel very unsettled and don't know whether to confront him just yet . I have taken all the screenshots.
Our sex life was used to be good but from few months it's only once a month.
I feel heartbroken.