My dick head ex husband walked out about 9 months ago. He was having multiple affairs, abusing me financially, physically, emotionally and mentally. Anyway, thank goodness he walked out.
He started dating a ‘new’ woman 2 weeks after he walked and I found out. At the time I was still in complete shock over him walking out and was an absolute mess. When I found out I called him and basically asked him what the f**k was going on! Here I am dying inside and he’s off dating another woman! Upon me bawling my eyes out to him he said he’d end it as it was ‘too much drama for him’.
To the present day. I’m like 99% sure he’s still with the woman (I don’t care) as he’s alluded to it multiple times etc.
This is where it gets weird. We have a child together. He sees our kid every two weeks and upon every collection my ex looks in my bins (not a euphemism). I see him on my front door camera which he knows is there but yet every time, he’s looking in my bins, deposes of nothing but just opens them, looks in and shuts them. At first I thought it was a bit funny but now I’m like ??????
I suspect he’s trying to see if I’m dating someone so that we can announce his woman on social media (that’s how I found out about her, two weeks after he left he was sending her love heart and loving messages all over her profiles online and lovely Instagram recommended her profile to me haha)
Am I missing something?! Why on Earth is he looking in my bloody bins!!!! At first I didn’t care but it’s happening every time now and I feel a bit weirded by it.