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He keeps contacting me

58 replies

Ferne7 · 08/01/2023 23:09

I met a man at a running club about 6 years ago. He seemed to develop an obsession with me. I have been in a relationship for 5 months and this man does not know I am no longer single. I am getting annoyed now as he is messaging me daily. I leave it 24 hours to reply but he is not getting the message. I have never been romantically interested and never will. I love my boyfriend very much. Why do men not get the message and act desperate? I wish he would leave me alone.

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Fragrantandfoolish · 10/01/2023 12:11

Lol you text this dude daily and didn’t tell him you’d a boyfriend and you think he’s the problem? 😂

TedMullins · 10/01/2023 12:15

Why on earth have you been replying to him for SIX YEARS???? I’ve blocked people for less after six minutes!

Igloo79 · 10/01/2023 12:21

You say "he's not getting the message" but you haven't given him a message - except that if he texts you, you will reply! If I was regularly texting someone and they always texted back, I'd be baffled to find out they were annoyed with me for not knowing they didn't want to hear from me.

Andypandy799 · 10/01/2023 23:19

@Ferne7 sounds like this poor bloke had a lucky escape and I feel sorry for your boyfriend to be with such a drama queen who just loves attention. Don’t expect wedding bells 😂

Carlycat · 10/01/2023 23:31

Ffs. Are you 13?!
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Hiddenvoice · 12/01/2023 07:47

I’m glad you finally told him about your boyfriend but disagree with you describing him as pestering you. He was contacting you on different platforms as he thought you two were friends and that’s normal for some friends to talk over different platforms.
you should have been upfront with him months ago, if not 6 years ago when you first were not interested.

SuperHandss · 12/01/2023 07:50

I don’t think you know what obsessed means

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