Friend’s dp kept trying to smack her bottom (lighthearted)

[Tiltymubha]

Overhead friend and her new dp messing about in the next room, I am staying with them for a long weekend. She kept refusing to get up and leave the sofa as she was too tired and be threatened to give her a smacked bottom if she didn’t get ready. She was giggling and it was obviously lighthearted. But I can’t help but feel the ick a bit albeit second hand!! I know it’s not my relationship. Am I being too much of a prude?

Lots of people are in to spanking 👀

You'd have a heart attack if you heard some of the things we say to each other 😂

Worst. Foreplay. Ever.

Not. For. Everyone. 🙄

Maybe you overheard their foreplay. I want my memory scrubbed if I were you, not to dig deeper.

Do you really think saying 'move or I'll smack your bum' is good foreplay?

Love this post 😂

And this!

MN posters are brilliant.

Yes if that’s what you are in to!

Luckily we don’t all have to like the same thing….

I think it’s cringey and would be embarrassed to have overheard it. Surely you keep that for when you don’t have a guest in the next room?

Literally. How is an adult woman lolling around a sofa refusing to get up then her adult partner threatening to smack her bum while her visiting friend sits awkwardly in the next room sexy?

Definitely my sort of foreplay tbh! 😂

Foreplay?! Is it not just flirtatious banter?

Yeah it's literally just playfulness, surely!

Depends on if there is actual spanking 😂 😂!

If you don't get it, there's not a huge amount of use in someone explaining it to you. A lot of people like a bit of spanking/role play. It's pretty normal.

"ick" 😂

What are you? a ten year old?

What kind of adult says "ick" 😂

Am I being too much of a prude?

Yes.

My friends would have just laughed.

@LadyOfTheFliessssss but there was no spanking or role play. "Move or I'll smack your bottom" isn't anything like either of those things.

Spank (usually on the bottom) & Smack are the same according to thesaurus.com

Thesaurus.com shows synonyms which aren't necessarily words that are exactly the same. They can be similar.

They are very similar though - I would say the same.

I'm not that bothered that I'm going to argue about it though.

If this thread is even real.

I highly doubt he was seriously suggesting non sexual corporal punishment.

Maybe in the bedroom. Threatening a smacked bottom for lying around the couch refusing to move while a guest is in the next room isn’t ’a bit of spanking/roleplay.’ It’s just a bit weird.

If you do want to engage in BDSM/spanking/sexual roleplay that’s obviously fine. But in the same way I wouldn’t expect you to loudly engage in ‘dirty talk’ wheee guests can hear, I think it’s odd to try to initiate sexual spanking/roleplay when a guest is sitting in the next room.

You might think it's weird. You're not the authority on what's odd and what's not though, so that's just your own opinion. For a lot of couples, it would be completely normal.