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Contact with abuser when police advise NC

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Alwaystoblame · 28/12/2022 13:27

My Dd is saying her dad physically and sexually abused her a few days ago. She lives with him. She's now here with me and the police have said for her not to have any contact with him until they have seen her later today and investigated. She's 16. Today despite police advice she has been in contact with him because she wanted him to do something for her. We have a tricky relationship and I'm doing my best to protect her and am frustrated that she is in contact with him against police advice. How can I handle this?

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Alwaystoblame · 01/01/2023 15:42

Today she has called me a cunt apropos of nothing. I'm disgusted with her.

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Anotheryearsameshitshow · 01/01/2023 22:13

Ime walk away. For now anyway. Let her see her df is her chosen parent from here on.. You aren't to be abused. . She doesn't get to do that.

Alwaystoblame · 01/01/2023 22:32

No she doesn't get to abuse me. I've blocked her number because I'm not tolerating that from her. She has a social worker now for support, she has camhs, counsellor at school, and has the ability to report anything herself. I make her life hell she says so I'm staying out of her life for my own benefit and as far as she's concerned her own benefit.

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