Living with my husband is like living with another child/a teenage boy.
We have a son who is 2 and since he was born I find things have got worse.
He comes in from work and sits on his phone majority of the time on TikTok or Facebook watching a lot of crap basically.
He never tidies up after himself and would leave clothes and mess everywhere if I didn't put it away.
I usually make dinner and before he would at least tidy it up but now it's left to me or dumped in the kitchen on the counter.
I get up with my son every morning and even on weekends when my husband isn't working he lies in bed till 9.30-10 o'clock when I've been up since 6.30 sometimes. He said it's the only 'time off' he gets.
He has started a new job which is quite flexible so he is home more and sometimes finished work at 12 o'clock. Still I come home from work to nothing done.
He said I'm no fun now and nothing he does makes me laugh. His idea of a joke for example tonight was throwing a wet nappy at my face while I was standing doing the dishes. This was after lying on the couch snoozing while I'm doing washing, tidying up etc.
He is really pissing me off. He is a good dad and spends time with our son when he can but it's like I should thank him for doing it.
When he does do anything around the house he feels the need to announce it like oh did you see I emptied the bins for you or did you see I emptied the dishwasher for you.
All this while still expecting me to be turned on a want sex at the drop of a hat. Don't think so!!!
Just needed to rant!!!