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Treely912 · 2022-12-07T17:12:13+00:00

So I found out a while ago that my husband went to a lap dancing club twice on two separate stag dos and had private lap dances both times which i wasn’t happy about. He’s now told me he has another stag do in an Eastern European city and I can’t help but worry. He’s told me he wouldn’t have a private dance. Help!? What would you do?

Pallisers · 09/12/2022 03:50

Aussiegirl123456 · 08/12/2022 21:28

Did a man actually come on here and respond with the usual bullshit answer before actually even reading the post. And then once corrected, told a female poster to calm down?!! I just can’t! 😂

Yes it is highly amusing.

TiAmoTiAmo · 09/12/2022 04:16

What would I do? I wouldn't be with him for a start. I don't like men who go to strip clubs or use prostitutes (that includes Only Fans/Cam 'girls').
You either believe him or you don't. I wouldn't believe him because he is the sort of man to think this is ok and his friends are probably the same. He will say whatever to keep you quiet but then go there and do it thinking you won't know. You can't trust him, why marry him?

eurochick · 09/12/2022 06:31

Aussiegirl123456 · 08/12/2022 21:28

Did a man actually come on here and respond with the usual bullshit answer before actually even reading the post. And then once corrected, told a female poster to calm down?!! I just can’t! 😂

Yes, yes he did. 🤦🏼‍♀️

girlmom21 · 09/12/2022 08:20

@hotandspicy so are you a woman who's been on stag dos or a straight man with a 'fella'?

booboo24 · 09/12/2022 08:32

I'm not sure why @hotandspicy is getting all the agro, he's just giving his own opinion and trying to help the op with a male perspective. So what, he didn't read the opening thread properly, I'm sure we are all guilty of that at some point. I love mn but sometimes I cringe at how bitchy it gets when a man comes on here, it's awful

He didn't say he gay either, he was quoting the op if you read it back

girlmom21 · 09/12/2022 08:35

booboo24 · 09/12/2022 08:32

I'm not sure why @hotandspicy is getting all the agro, he's just giving his own opinion and trying to help the op with a male perspective. So what, he didn't read the opening thread properly, I'm sure we are all guilty of that at some point. I love mn but sometimes I cringe at how bitchy it gets when a man comes on here, it's awful

He didn't say he gay either, he was quoting the op if you read it back

Ohhh you're right about him quoting the OP on the 'fella' bit.

My bad @hotandspicy. Sorry I think I derailed a little bit by getting confused there!

Aussiegirl123456 · 09/12/2022 08:38

booboo24 · 09/12/2022 08:32

I'm not sure why @hotandspicy is getting all the agro, he's just giving his own opinion and trying to help the op with a male perspective. So what, he didn't read the opening thread properly, I'm sure we are all guilty of that at some point. I love mn but sometimes I cringe at how bitchy it gets when a man comes on here, it's awful

He didn't say he gay either, he was quoting the op if you read it back

He told someone to “calm down”! That wasn’t ever going to go down well, was it?

booboo24 · 09/12/2022 10:37

@girlmom21 haha it's easily done, I get so confused sometimes, I've even answered on the wrong thread before!

@Aussiegirl123456 I know that doesn't go down well on here at all!

isitsummertimeyet · 09/12/2022 12:05

booboo24 · 09/12/2022 08:32

I'm not sure why @hotandspicy is getting all the agro, he's just giving his own opinion and trying to help the op with a male perspective. So what, he didn't read the opening thread properly, I'm sure we are all guilty of that at some point. I love mn but sometimes I cringe at how bitchy it gets when a man comes on here, it's awful

He didn't say he gay either, he was quoting the op if you read it back

Cheers booboo. Someone not ready just jump all over my posts, appreciate that..

I'd get the hot responses if I agreed the husband's behaviour was acceptable but I concured with the worried wife it's almost certain he is likely to do it again if the opportunity presents itself.

Not sure why I'm being asked I'm gay or not, if I was would that make my opinion any less valued...😏

girlmom21 · 09/12/2022 12:15

I told you exactly why I asked if you were gay @isitsummertimeyet. Don't try and make that something it's not.

Although an AS of this username makes me think everyone jumping on you is right to do so. I don't think you're impartial here.

Aussiegirl123456 · 09/12/2022 13:43

girlmom21 · 09/12/2022 12:15

I told you exactly why I asked if you were gay @isitsummertimeyet. Don't try and make that something it's not.

Although an AS of this username makes me think everyone jumping on you is right to do so. I don't think you're impartial here.

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MrsTerryPratchett · 09/12/2022 14:32

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Blimey. That AS was an education. Not in a good way.

Stickyoffee · 10/12/2022 19:58

My ex husband went on one of these trips to Thailand and eventually returned there to live with a much younger woman

tunthebloodyalarmoff · 10/12/2022 20:01

Id be divorced by now

Crazykatie · 10/12/2022 20:10

You can be sure that all these clubs have private rooms that men can be entertained, for a tip if course, this happens in the UK, Poland , Latvia and wherever else you want to name.

Sorry but you either trust him or you dont