So I had an emergency c section one week ago, and I had a haemorrhage, lost 1.7L of blood. I’m home now but I’m still really weak and tired. I need my boyfriends help a lot, to get up and looking after the baby as I’m still in pain.
Over the days he seems to be getting progressively more annoyed. He has taken 2 weeks paternity leave. He keeps complaining that he can’t get things done like paint the shed etc. He says by the time I’m ready it’s too late for him to do anything.
Its making me upset, it’s not my fault. I feel I’m now over doing it trying to compensate, my wound is sore today form rocking the baby half the night.
I don’t know what to say to him. He is on paternity leave to help with the baby not do painting. I really need his help.