How would you rate your marriage?

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From 0-10?

Odd question I know but it was on an initial form for couples therapy and I just wondered what actually is "normal".

10, without hesitation. We have our ups and downs like everyone but we are so together and he really is amazing

10/10, would recommend. A++++

I’ll add some balance and say 5 maybe 6 at a push / 10

A genuine 10/10

🤣🤣🤣that’s not HIS fault!!

Id say 8/10. Love him and still fancy him loads after 20 years. But he can be v annoying sometimes and drives me mad (as I’m sure I do to him)

A solid 9.5/10 even after 20 hrs together

Years not hours!

It's a definite 10/10 for me - we are super happy. Married a year, together for two.

My last marriage was a 2/10 so I was due a good 'un!

It is funny! Interesting though. So would you say 7 is a strong marriage or with issues?

A bit like the UK shipping forecast

Marriage veering 4 or 5, occasionally 9 later. Occasional arguments. Moderate or good, occasionally poor."

Sorry to hear this...Puts things in perspective somewhat

Hmmm. I don't think a singular number is possible for me.

Our communication and intimacy, 6-7/10.

Our trust and support of each other 10/10.

Our friendship, 8/10.

We're a solid couple, been together our whole adult lives. But we have young kids and that affects our relationship.

No relationship is perfect. I know my siblings would rate theirs less but they're still together and relatively happy.

Some may rate it as 10/10 now but in a years time could be worse. I guess I'm just saying, take others experience with a pinch of salt and remember that no one gets everything from one person (unless their needs are very low!)

9.5, because there’s always room for improvement. But we are very happy and good at talking about anything that is affecting our relationship.

a 7 is decent. A few issues that are probably minor annoyances rather than serious? Does that sound right?

10. I love him and I like him so so much.

5/10- drifted into friend zone over the years so no intimacy now. We get on ok though.

7 because we've just bought a house we need to renovate whilst working full time and taking care of two dogs with major anxiety - and oooft that puts a strain on things! Usually a 9-10 though.

Hmm so tricky to evaluate..
friendship 10/10
Sex 0/10 (ED)
Intimacy (10/10)
Suppprt 10/10

Ed is a very tricky thing . However it is not the be all end all of a relationship.. Would I like the amazing sex life we had when we got together? You bet I would ..Do I leave because it's no longer on the agenda due to health issues ... absolutely not. I love him. End of..

10 most of the time. 9 when he leaves it too long to sort his floordrobe out.

10/10 would marry him again tomorrow and every day!

Honestly, 0.
Only married a few years and already wish I hadn’t married him. The second he put that ring on my finger, he changed.

1. Get along ok, some common interests. Very little intimacy.

9/10

He loses a point for constantly putting his foot in it. He says whatever he thinks and it often causes upsets.

He's working on this though.

10! He is definitively the right one for me, we are very happy together and I love him with all my heart.

8 nothing or no one is perfect but we're happy but obviously I can't speak fir my husband so not sure what he would rate us.