My DP is in his late 50s I am over a decade younger. He is very shouty in an aggressive way towards me. It has been developing for past 4 years. It started with him interrupting literally every sentence I would try to say. He would cut in and completely steer the conversation elsewhere. He also talks over me all the time. I am naturally soft and gentle person and I realised recently that I feel he is a bully. He very rarely apologises for his behaviour. Used to, but not anymore. There is a an intellectual gap between us which I never bring up because even when we met I was shy about my degree. He however often brings it up. I am also in a good finance situ which I noticed bothers him. I wonder if this is all connected. I often burst into tears when he shouts but he says to me he has no empathy gene so it doesn't make any difference to him. I read a lot about narcissists and recognise traits in him but not all. He is also the type of guy that is always right (even if he isn't) and very very argumentative. I have never met anyone so argumentative in my life. We had problems due to that. He has a good well paid job yet constantly moans about it, he moans about everything and everybody and listening to it each day is tiring. He also talks about money non stop. How much everything costs, how much he earns, how much he used to earn, how much this how much that. He will ask me why I am sad and if I tell him he starts shouting at me. I told him I am scared of him because he shouts at me and in response he shouts at me as for why am I scared of him? well because you shout at me. I just wonder is it normal for late 50s guys to behave like that. I feel I have been conditioned to this behaviour but feel I am getting very withdrawn with life and very sad.