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Im not ready to sleep with new guy yet

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Frankleee · 10/10/2022 09:35

We have been on 3 dates, date 2 in particular was quite romantic and enjoying getting to know each other. Both seem to be looking for similar things, he is very complimentary, says I’m beautiful a lot, seems into me and I like him.

was slightly put off on date 3 when he hinted a few times to come back to mine. It almost gave me the ick as he suggested and I said it wouldn’t be possible (various reasons) and then later on he asked if I was sure, which seemed pushy. In his defence we had both had a bit to drink and I guess it’s normal to want things to go there.

for the next date we are going to his and cooking together. Is it worth saying that I’d love to stay over but enjoying taking things slow so a little too early just yet to sleep together (for me). I guess I’m worried that might make him things I don’t like him or not into him (both untrue, I just need time) or worse that he may try to persuade me when I’m there (which would give me the ick).

any advice please?

OP posts:
SagittariusDwarf · 10/10/2022 15:04

Breastfeedingworries · 10/10/2022 12:08

I went out for dinner with dp, came back and slept with him on the first date, moved in the next day and never left! Been here since march, going for holiday with his parents this Sunday 🤣 think we’ re marrying next year, baby planning after Christmas, buying house in April!

although the caveat to this story is I’ve known him 15 years! We were both in other relationships. Life’s very strange! How sometimes the most unexpected things happen.

good luck op

What's your point?

Blackcatsarethebest · 10/10/2022 16:26

Sisisimone · 10/10/2022 12:20

Relevance to OP...?
None whatsoever. Appears to be some kind of weird 'look at me I'm so blissfully happy' stealth boast.

Totally agree with you, first thing I thought

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