ED from guy in his 20s but wants anal sex

[outlanderfan88]

I've been seeing a guy for a couple of weeks, we met on tinder..

4 nights ago we 'did the deed' or rather tried to but he couldn't get an erection, his excuse was that he was nervous.

Tonight we tried again and again he wasn't feeling it but then he started asking me for anal sex, not my favorite thing in the world, so i ummmed and arrrred and the fact that i was considering it seemed to excite him and he got an erection. The whole thing kinda freaked me out so i made my excuses and left

am i right to think this is weird from a fella in his 20s?

Tell him to fuck right off dirty bastard. He can't get an erection at 20 years old but asks for anal and gets an erection at the possibility of it. There is nothing intimate about that and in a new thing with someone that would be just gross. He has serious issues and just wants to be in control and has a fetish for anal. I would have ran out of there. Please do not waste your time with this person as he sounds awful unless anal is your fetish and thing also.

Way way too much hard work for the start of a relationship.
Don't waste your time trying to work it out. Move on

Porn.

The chances if a fit healthy young man in his 20s having enough wrong with him to cause ED are slim.

Life is too short for bad sex.

Don't go back for a 3rd date god knows what he will suggest

Let’s focus on facts. It needn’t be a make gay thing, plenty of heterosexual couples participate from time to time.

First of all consent is queen of the bedroom. Anal requires enthusiastic consent, thorough preparation, communication, 100% trust and for the male to be both gentle and rock hard. Which of these apply here?

Hmmm! I thought so.

Yes. Get rid immediately.

Bin him!

He may be gay

Why, given all the apps that cater for gay men, be it for serious relationships or a quick hook up, would a single gay man target heterosexual women and try and convince them to have anal sex??

Yeah I doubt he's gay, just porn sick and incompetent.

Sorry, you misread - not helped by my convoluted sentence structure - I meant:
He asks for anal (and no, no ED) after having sex a handful of times.
I willfully misinterpret the request and say "sure, let me get a strap-on".

I dumped him not much later

Putting aside people's opinions an anal sex,

It's just not appropriate for him to suggest this do early on. This is something that, if you do, you do it with someone you're 100% comfortable with and trust. Not some bloke off Tinder who's not even your boyfriend. It's don't imagine he's had much luck asking.

Yeah, he'd be gone.

Back in the sea with this freak.

Too nervous to get it up but confident enough to ask for anal sex on the second attempt? Doesn't ring true to me.

^ This. Just ewww

Fucking nerve of these men. Anal? With an inexperienced twat, showing not one ounce of care for you. Go ahead if you want to be shitting in your nappy in ten years. Bin him off, he is disgusting.