So just a bit of background, we have 2 sons, a 12 and a 11 year old. Over the years, I always felt that I wanted a third child, we never tried for one, but I always thought that if it happens it happens. Husband has always been against the idea of a third child. Neither one of us used contraception.
Last weekend, I found out I was pregnant. After telling my husband this, he did not say anything about it for 2 days. When I asked him how he was feeling, he told me that he's not having another child, and that was that, nothing to negotiate of discuss. I asked him, are you saying that I need to terminate the pregnancy? He said, I don't want another child.
It broke my heart when he said this, I could not stop the tears from running down my face that night. I ended the conversation by telling him that unfortunately we are not going to come an agreement about this tonight.
Its been 3 days, we've both avoided talking about the pregnancy, I feel lost and so alone. Is he expecting me to host "go and sort it out"? I know I want to keep our baby, but don't know if he will threaten to leave if I tell him I'm not having the abortion. Is he going to tell me I'm the selfish one for having this baby against his will?
I would love to hear advice from anyone that knows or has been in a situation like this? I don't know what to do.