I came on here and few months ago has I found WhatsApp calls between my husband and a woman who he said was just a friend from years ago.
I asked to speak to her but he said no so I blew my top and kicked him out( These were video calls at 4 in the morning and calls at lunchtime and tea time,he works away Mon to Friday)
We did a lot of talking while he was away. I don't believe it was just friendly chat but he said he has deleted her from WhatsApp and blocked her on Facebook which he has .
This woman he had a affair with years ago when he was previously married she is also married to the same man.
I also wanted to have access to his phone because my phone is unlocked and I have nothing to hide and I feel he should do the same.
But now everything is deleted all history from Google (l found lots of porn and camsites with girls) He said he just looks but doesn't interact but I said I don't mind porn but feel cam girls are crossing the line!
Hes a big flirt and I absolutely hate it he knows it makes me go nuts and we have had many a barny over him doing the whole Mr charming man routine...
While we were on our break his old phone had a issue with moisture so he bought a new phone but when he came back he put it in rice and it started to work.
Hes now using the new phone but the old one has disappeared.
We have a drawer with old phones in it but I just can't find it..
I also found a old Nokia touch screen phone in his laptop bag when he came home was never there before but I can't get into it..I don't have a charger that fits it .
So what I am asking is if I can get it charged how do you open it if its locked and can you take the sim out and put it in your phone would you see whats on it.
I need to put my mind at rest i believe hes doing things that I wouldn't be happy about. I don't know if its chat sites or other woman but I need to know so I can start to trust or End it for good.
I just have this terrible feeling I am being cheated on